Male to Female Transformation – Dreams, Fantasies and Facts 2

We have seen that most of the males have a fantasy for female dresses in my earlier post, Male to Female transformation – Dreams,Fantasies and Facts 1. In this post we shall we shall discuss how some of them get that fantasy fulfilled.

I have discussed with many closet cross dressers and almost everyone have revealed to me that, they had this fantasy from their early childhood itself and they had started dressing as a female at the tender age of 10. Most of them had tried their sister’s dress or their friend’s or relative’s dress. At that period of life they would not have had the analytical capability. They would not have even planned for it. But something within their body or their genes had made them try this risky exercise.

You cannot even say that they are wrong as the decision is not taken by them voluntarily. The inner mind that got instilled at the time of inception had played its role and made them do the unbelievable. Some had gotten away with that but some were caught red handed and were punished for their abnormal behavior by their parents.

Those who remained undiscovered continued to dress as they wished in privacy whenever they got the right occasion and things. With their fantasy fulfilled they have remained as cross dressers throughout their life but have done so in privacy without the knowledge of close relatives, friends and society. Since their curiosity and fantasy got fulfilled most of this category had not stepped out or taken a bold decision of getting concerted permanently. There are certain cases in this category who have done so but those incidences are rare though.

But those unfortunate enough to get caught at their tender age restricted, restrained and mentally abused by parents and they feared even to perform the act in privacy later on as they did earlier in privacy. But the genes and the fantasies residing in them are permanent and would never diminish or disappear.

Their craving for female dress would be developed inside the mind with suppressed anger waiting for a chance to explode. This is a very dangerous phenomenon that had led them to take decisions that changed their life completely and even brought their lives to gutters. Parents and relatives who have restricted them now feel for their behavior and think that they should have allowed their son to take the decision of shaping his own life.

Some others in this category who did not have the guts to take a bold decision but had kept their emotions within themselves had even got married. Some of those who got married started doing secret sessions in hotel rooms or with like-minded friends and they have escaped dire consequences. But some who did not get the opportunity ended up with failed marriage that had filled their life full of sorrow. There are now branded as failures in society even though they possesses excellent qualities and nature.

Desire arising from the inner depth of the mind of a male to get dressed as female is natural and has scientific and genetic ties with it. It should not be suppressed as this results in consequences that almost ends their happy and successful life. The social consciousness also needs to be changed. Females are wearing almost all the male dresses with freedom and they are not considered outcast and why this discrimination extended only to the males who wish to get dressed up with female dress?